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There are no limits allowing to declare that it is what is right and what is wrong. Most importantly is the daily live of people. It is not the role they have to exercise. It is rather the provision, the intention, the goodwill that has to do it. This is what is giving us the category of being a couple who feeds or one that he wears. Who does what and how: is a circumstance that decide you to each couple. If one works and another stays at home, it is correct for that couple in particular.

It is obvious, that what is decided also includes a commitment to a two. Because if one of them does not comply with what was agreed is missing to his promise. Make it clear does not fail the role, but its commitment to live as a couple. Who does what and how: is a game of trade-offs. In order to receive it is necessary to be able to give is necessary to receive and when, in the words still seems very easy to say, in actions not always the case. There are couples in which one of the members takes the greatest burden of functions.

The result is a general rule resentment, reproaches, fatigue and tension. In this life of a two, we have chosen to carry out, is that this is our alternative life, is important to define who does what and how to not feel surprised, angry, disillusioned and betrayed by our other half. Course it is necessary that both are agree. It is also important to take into account that such agreements are changing with age or when we feel that that no longer meets us and that far from contributing to our relationship, on the contrary, gets worse it. Be open to change is a feature that couples is necessary to take into account in this world today. Who does what and how: it is not a static term, by contrast, is a set of actions and reactions. We must not forget that the partner is an individual project that we are willing to share with other have that appreciation, love and are willing to grant him time, attentions, living together at least in time in which we have chosen to live as a couple. However in this that we are making and unmaking the most important thing in our life as a couple, is not only what we wish and hope that the couple us o do And Yes not that we do each one and how we do to contribute to live as a couple. The elections are ours from the individual how carry them out depends on our disposition or attitude. Our ways also reflect our hows when the love in couple is converted in pain. original author and source of the article.