Every human being who comes into the world needs special care and above all a containment. Babies have their own needs adults, mainly the mother have to resolve. We are so helpless and also the only beings on this planet that we depend on others for our development for a long time. Therefore, the mother-child closeness has become essential in this period, also others that come into play in the upbringing of children. Psychological maturity is a process and it takes time to be achieved. Therefore, the child requires passing through various phases which are its own and have to live conflicts, troubles, and also blows in their development to mature. To always start any psychological change or achievement of it is rigged with the biological maturity. Although our desires are great to give your child walk or talk, you can do it only in time and according to the maturation of the central nervous system.
Concerned parents feel very anxious because the maturity is too soon, or, by caring for in excess of the ripening process. They rush to the task of caring too much and prevent the children what they deserve in their learning. They also dumped in trying to be the best parents and lose the wealth that each of the children brings with it. On the other hand, do not allow them to show their true personality or criticize them, or require them or the afixian. Worried parents in excess preventing proper development of children. As his life depends on his children, then, they become too present, want their children to cover them all their expectations, and also yearn for recognition and appreciation by the boys. Of course we all want to do it as best as possible. It is also true that the children are different to us persons and will be taken according to their personal characteristics that corresponds them.
There is a process that I’ve called the game of mirrors in psychological life and is fair in this process where develops self-concept, identity and self-esteem is developed. Therefore if we decide to choose the path of fatherhood and motherhood we must assume first and foremost, that we are trainers and a few large mirrors in the lives of our children. They are not our friends, are our children, and our responsibility is training in the best manner of his personality, not to mention that they will have to choose their own path. At Cecreto we are dedicated to the quality of its impact on the social and emotional life. And we also have an area dedicated to the education of minors.