PARIS denounce the emotional blackmail of some children. They advocate say no, enjoy a life retired with freedom to use the time to your liking. Grandparents say enough to emotional blackmail and to be the solution for everything. The Federation of associations of most people in Catalonia (Fatec) has made public a manifesto which claims that it cannot demand grandparents that deal with the grandchildren, although many do so willingly. It is not only children.
Public administration and the educational collective can not anticipate the departure of class and pretend to be the grandparents who take care of the kids without the least hint of compensation, denounced this Thursday at 20 minutes the President of Fatec, Mario Cugat. To his understanding, perhaps will not increase the number of grandparents who care for grandchildren, but Yes will force those who already do kangaroos will take longer. That is why it is so it has sent a letter to the Minister of education in which reminds you that older people have right to enjoy a life retired with freedom to use the time to your liking. To Cugat, there are three types of grandparents: those who take charge of the grandchildren because so are busy, those that do to help children with limited resources, and those who suffer emotional blackmail and accept for fear to be bad parents and bad grandparents if they oppose. I know many cases of couples with economic capacity and although you may pay a kangaroo, rely on grandparents because it is the cheapest option, he lamented. Remei, has four grandchildren: I always put the point about the ies.
Provided that they have wanted, Remei and her husband have helped their children to take care of the grandchildren, but without neglecting that they abuse them as did the children of some friends, who were not able to say no. Merce, is a grandmother of a child: grandparents who do it is because they can do it. This August he has taken care of his grandson of two years and a half and is happy to be able to have done. Would you eat it me, she says laughing. Ensures that the grandparents who care for grandchildren, do this because they can. Cristina, has three grandchildren: sometimes, there are children who abuse a little. He believes that some couples abuse from their parents. Despite this, he had no hesitation in going to live to her daughter’s House to help her three years taking care of her granddaughter two years and the twins finished birth. Isidre, is grandfather of three children: do so not to eat at school. He and his wife wanted and could help their children. Every day they eat with two of his granddaughters and deal with them when they leave school. In summer, they take them hiking. Source of the news: grandparents refuse to be kangaroos by obligation.