Has anyone ever asked myself "who am I really? Just what I'm looking for the answer to this question, but, unfortunately, a diamond buried in a quagmire. We consider here at least a brief one question: what is quagmire? It pursues around us, giving us a breathing space and time. In everyday life, it occurs at every step. All our thoughts – this is rubbish, too, wishes are attached here. Consider all of us is in more detail. To be more clear, people have rod, and everything else around it – winding. The winding is a collection of all the developments of its past as well as strangers. When a person is born, his childhood begin to program – teachers in kindergarten, my friends in the yard, parents at home, teachers at the school, teachers in high school, heads to work the media.
And so it goes on from generation to generation – the blind leading the blind, and both roll to the suffering But behind all this Cycle have someone plan. Let's call we Forces. They are quite specific and in each of the forces has its own interest. Many of these forces us to live in parallel dimensions, other planets and star systems I guess everyone has heard of such forces as brownies, Sprites, some spirits of certain places and it's all really. But they did not move into a man, they live completely independent lives, can help and hurt, but externally, depending on the direction in which people attending.
Which only tricks are not women: the radically change his image, even go to fortune-tellers, waiting for the object of adoration in front of his home. But even after the object of adoration is a girl's legs, the girls still do not cease to worry and think about how it applies to it for a long time whether they will meet, what awaits them in the future – such thoughts really torture them. 'Did I win the heart of young men for life? " – Experiencing a young lady. 'Will not affect whether an affair with a man older than me for me know? " – Immediately arises in her mind is another question. Do not assume that these thoughts are typical only too exciting ladies.
Being able to lover, everyone starts to present itself to the various requests and worry over every detail. Case that, in love, we open ourselves to another person, previously almost unknown, and therefore makes a few helpless to influence of external factors, as well as sensitive, vulnerable. Very pleased that at present there appeared a considerable number of periodicals and Internet sites on which knowledgeable psychologist helps girls escape from their experiences. Such a resource for women provides an opportunity not only to obtain counseling professionals, but also to share thoughts with your friends, but also helps the disappearance of excitement and anxiety. Due to the fact that girls are often unable to find understanding among men, but their enthusiasm seems to men boring and not worth wasting time, so common now bought women's magazines, which can be purchased at any store. Such media can not only distract from the constant challenges, but also find answers to many questions relating to health, relationships with lovers, makeup, fashion and parenting. But not every woman can afford each week to buy fresh issue of your favorite magazine, as if she did not want be aware of all the latest trends in fashion, find new recipes, see the next catalog of cosmetics. For these women will be a great outlet for women portals are increasingly appearing on the Internet. Such portals can not only find the information you need, but also find new friends, and also ask questions of professionals in the field of psychology, family relations, women's health.
The struggle for power in the Russian family – the most frequent. Parenting and sexual behavior – the most convenient for this sphere of family life. The easiest way to improve their status and gain short-term sedation – is to discredit the efforts of partners. And then, suddenly, in yesterday was fairly calm family begin to unfold, "military action" and if the partners did not say during a "stop", "what am I doing?", Then result could be dire. Here is a typical example. The family lived a grandmother, mother, father and two girls.
Older than 19 years younger – 10 years. Grandmother – a woman active, and when the first girl grew up, she has worked with her learned that not prevent girls from learning bad. Mama always told my grandmother that is wrong she does with her elder granddaughter, a girl gets a bad mark. When a second girl came into school age, my grandmother told my mother: 'Well, Now you yourself will deal with your child, see how you could do. " The younger girl, who was very fond, and his mother and his grandmother was in a situation of conflict of loyalties.
If she will learn good – it means grandma lost if she will learn bad – means mother lost. The girl stopped to learn all the lessons and the school did not truant. When my mother sat down to teach her lessons, the girl has panic attacks. Second, "if you'll love is something I'm standing.
Believe it is possible, on the contrary, solely in the possibility of occurrence of something opportunity to achieve the goal in the correctness of any theory, the existence of something. Such faith is absolutely necessary if we want to achieve something, to realize their dreams and not be inert creation, not determining their own destiny. Indeed, in the words of William Bryan, destiny – it is no accident, but the object of choice, it does not expect a win. Belief in yourself, in this sense is extremely important, and it needs to understand each. It is no secret that mental attitude, perseverance and faith in their ability to increase the likelihood order to achieve results by helping to overcome indecision, internal constraints and revealing certain internal resources. In addition, if we understand faith in yourself in another aspect – as in the existence of unchanging over time and not liable to life woes own 'I' – it is the guarantor of the preservation of this 'I'. If you do not believe in yourself, you generally do not exist as an individual (and can not be responsible for themselves and their actions). Belief in the ability of other people is mandatory, if you – a mentor.
Psychologists note that excessive strictness in child rearing prevents the formation of self-reliance and independence. If you believe in the possibility of a child (which does not mean permissive parenting and a lack of care), it would be really education, not violence and manipulation. It is very important in human life is also a matter of choice between belief and disbelief in God.