The struggle for power in the Russian family – the most frequent. Parenting and sexual behavior – the most convenient for this sphere of family life. The easiest way to improve their status and gain short-term sedation – is to discredit the efforts of partners. And then, suddenly, in yesterday was fairly calm family begin to unfold, "military action" and if the partners did not say during a "stop", "what am I doing?", Then result could be dire. Here is a typical example. The family lived a grandmother, mother, father and two girls.
Older than 19 years younger – 10 years. Grandmother – a woman active, and when the first girl grew up, she has worked with her learned that not prevent girls from learning bad. Mama always told my grandmother that is wrong she does with her elder granddaughter, a girl gets a bad mark. When a second girl came into school age, my grandmother told my mother: 'Well, Now you yourself will deal with your child, see how you could do. " The younger girl, who was very fond, and his mother and his grandmother was in a situation of conflict of loyalties.
If she will learn good – it means grandma lost if she will learn bad – means mother lost. The girl stopped to learn all the lessons and the school did not truant. When my mother sat down to teach her lessons, the girl has panic attacks. Second, "if you'll love is something I'm standing.